In my part of the world we say you are a fool if your passion for a pursuit overcomes all practical sense. I am a stitching fool, and I stitch foolishness.

Friday, December 26, 2025

Boxing Day

Things are getting back to normal again, after the last-minute flurry of cooking, baking, feasting, and celebrating. Yes, we had a lovely, quiet, small Christmas.

So, today I pulled the Hummingbird out, and spent an hour or so doing invisible couching. To do this, you untwist the metal thread just slightly so you can see a single thread of the three that make up the twist of the thread. You sew that down, then retwist the thread. Rinse, repeat. This also involved plunging the thread ends and sewing them down.

I need to do another layer of outlining on the wings, and outlining around the bird, and then fill in the tail. I do not believe I will have all of this done in a day. 

Maybe several days.

Maybe a week.

Monday, December 22, 2025

Fa-la-la, la-la-la-la

Right before I woke up this morning, I had the most vivid dream. I dreamed I had five ornaments stitched, two large and three small, all on red linen, and all I needed to do was put them together.

I woke up and thought I should get right on putting those five ornaments together. Then, wait a minute, I do not have five ornaments stitched on red linen and ready to assemble. I do have my 2025 ornament from Barbara Jackson stitched.

So I put that together.

As soon as the glue has time to dry, I'm going to hang it on the tree.

And then I might look for red linen for those other ornaments that came to me in a dream.

 

Sunday, December 21, 2025

Serendipitous Stitching Joy

 I've decided that 2026 will be the year of Serendipitous Stitching Joy--basically, as I mentioned a day or so ago, I'm going to stitch what I want when I want without deadlines or schedules or goals.

As in, today I have put a few stitches into the Flame Stitch Pouch project, which is my want-to-stitch-but-don't-want-to-think project. It is coming along nicely, and I really, really, really love the colors.

And, in the middle of the night, I had an epiphany.

I was thinking about my Blessing Sampler. I thought about the stitches involved and the different areas, and I started planning what I would do each week to have it done by the end of January.

Full Stop.

Had I not just decided that I would not work toward any kind of goal or deadline?

And yet here I was, back in pre-retirement employee mode: Plan the Work, then Work the Plan.

Nope, nope, nope.

So, there is now going to be no Blessing Sampler. I am going to consider stitching every day the blessing and the joy. I should probably go about doing that in the rest of my life as well.

Saturday, December 20, 2025

Stash Diving

 I went hunting in the stash this evening with two very specific projects in mind.

I didn't find either of them. 

However, I think I found my Blessing Sampler.

It is small and likely to be finished in a month, even with other things calling my name. However, most of it is worked over one on 35 count linen. I'm wondering if I could get away with tent stitch rather than cross.

The other thing is that Dearly Beloved and I have a milestone anniversary in 2026, and this seems appropriate for the year.

So, I think I may give it a go and see how the New Year begins.

Friday, December 19, 2025

Taking the Plunge

I have spent the afternoon plunging threads.


 My little hummingbird looks much neater now.

If you've never plunged threads, it is a process. It is a very fiddly process.

What you have to do is make a lasso from thread--you cut a piece of strong thread (I use Coats Craft thread), double it, and put the two free ends through the eye of a big needle. Then you insert the needle into the spot where you want to sink (or plunge) the metal thread ends, lasso the very end of the metal thread, and pull the metal thread through to the back of the work. After you get a few ends plunged, you turn the work over and sew those ends to the back of the work.

Sounds easy-peasy, right?

Well, maybe if you're not a klutz.

And it helps if you have lovely long, slender fingers. (I have short, pudgy tot hands.) 

If you don't leave a long enough tail on the metal threads, it is very difficult to grab the very, very end of the metal to get it through the lasso. If you're not careful, the metal wrap around the base thread of your thread will start to unravel, and then you won't have shiny metal on the front of the work--you'll have the yellow string that the metal is wrapped around.

So, basically, I found I need to leave longer ends so my short, fat fingers can actually grab the end of the thread, and I need to trim the ends before I pull through so I have metal wrap all the way to the end and I have to use a humongous needle to make a big enough hole to get the ends through to the back. And sometimes a thimble to push the humongous needle through the felt padding.

And bandaids. I need bandaids. Because there is no doubt that I am going to stab myself at least once if not more with the humongous needle.

And this is why it can take me an entire afternoon to plunge threads.


Thursday, December 18, 2025

Another orbit around the sun

 Today is the day I start another orbit around the sun, and I've been thinking.

I've been panicking about the end of the year and how few things I've managed to finish this year, and about all the things I want to stitch, and about how I'm definitely getting older and how much time do I have left to finish all my to-do lists . . . 

I saw a post on Instagram from someone who had kitted up all the projects she wants to stitch in 2026. She had a very elaborate shelving system with a tray for each project. I counted 24. And then there was a later post where she showed the auxiliary shelves with room for at least 6 more projects, maybe more, for anything else that might come her way in 2026.

I've listened to Flosstubers talking about doing a project a month, and all the SALs that are starting up, and goals, and finishes.

I thought to myself--wouldn't it be fun to do a Twelve Days of Christmas thing, where I pick out 12 projects (obviously) and work on one each day, beginning on Christmas and ending with the last on January 5, Then I would commit to finishing each of them in the New Year.

That is when I realized that I'm still in work mode, setting goals and ticking off to-do lists, and stressing when things aren't coming together the way I want them to.

Full stop.

This is not the way to spend ones Golden Years.

I have now decided that my stitching will have no goals, no deadlines, no pressure, no stress. If I don't finish one single thing in 2026, I'm going to enjoy the trip and not worry about any destination. By golly, I'm going to enjoy stitching again, if it kills me! I'll still take classes because I can't not take classes, but I'm going to try to pull a few more things out of the stash that I've wanted to play with for years. I'm going to do my best to get over FOMO.

The only thing I want to do is to stitch every day with the understanding that if I don't feel like working on the project I started on in the morning, I can set it down and pick up something else, or two other something elses, and it's OK if I stick a needle in 14 different things in the course of the day, as long as I'm having fun.

Meanwhile, I pulled out a project from a year or so ago, and I've added this to the three other pieces on my worktable that have gold threads in them. It is definitely the sparkly season around here!

Lizzie Pye's Hummingbird in Silk and Gold was an online project EGA offered. I ran across the project box while I was trying to organize myself the other day and decided it was time to pull it out. I am in the midst of plunging threads. I would like to mention that this is not one of my favorite things to do in goldwork, but the finished project looks absolutely wonderful when it's done.

But today I may put another Christmas ornament together so it will have time to shine on the Christmas tree.

(In the interest of full disclosure, I will admit that I am thinking about going stash diving for a smaller sampler to use as a Blessing Sampler. Yes, I know that it's supposed to be finished by the end of January and I said no goals--but if it just happens to get finished in a month, I'll consider myself blessed and move on. If not, so what?)